🤔🧐🥸😎🤓💁*People Who Are Slowly Losing Any Desire To Be Social Usually Say 8 Phrases👉

#Losing #desire #to #be #social

People Who Are Losing Interest In Being Social Say 8 Phrases In Casual Conversation | YourTango
https://www.yourtango.com/wellness/people-slowly-losing-desire-be-social-phrases

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#World #Travel #Voyages #France #Photography #Music #Media #Podcast #A7Radio #Webradio #Social

Distributed Proofreaders shares advice on How Not to Be a Wallflower https://blog.pgdp.net/2026/09/01/how-not-to-be-a-wallflower/ #ebook #advice #social

🥸😎🤓🤔🧐💁🏼‍♀️*Psychology says the shrinking social circle of your 60s isn’t decline — researchers call it socioemotional selectivity, the brain’s deliberate trade of crowd for closeness once time starts feeling finite👉

#Social #Circle #Shrinkage

Psychology says the shrinking social circle of your 60s isn't decline — researchers call it socioemotional selectivity, the brain's deliberate trade of crowd for closeness once time starts feeling finite
https://www.bolde.com/psychology-says-the-shrinking-social-circle-of-your-60s-isnt-decline-researchers-call-it-socioemotional-selectivity-the-brains-deliberate-trade-of-crowd-for-closeness-once-time-starts-f/

@thatdnaguy @argv_minus_one Tech people probably see / saw the cat and mouse game during all these years:

The same stakes but higher (#optin or #optout) means fueling the #cat (the #industry) is 100% futile...

#Devs use Tech for #money BUT that is also funding #banks and domino effects of funding bad #projects. also #war.

Developing people is the higher priority now more than tech & money.

Not developing machines.

#Dev #Social (a better #society of less-tech #people / friends - build mass.

I can see what people on X/Twitter, Instagram and Hacker News are up to once I know someone is making the ActivityPub bridge. Then I can see that my Instagram account has been indexed and connected to the Fediverse.

I can now see what people are talking about on centralised social networks, thanks to @vincent. At the moment, the bridge only has one-way "roads" and we cannot send replied posts from the Fediverse to them. You might be interested to know that this one is better than the work of the Meta guys on ActivityPub on Threads.

#fediverse #activitypub #bridge #social #socialnetwork #socialmedia

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Showing that my Instagram account now is indexed to the fediverse.

@therealitynetwork Well kind of...

You do need ask for #cooperation and this is the trouble I think you're also having:

People today don't like to talk to people or quickly feel threatened, territorial etc
It's normal but too fast is a point of 'no return'.

I have to ask to talk with those only interested in #technology 'development' and NOT #social 'development'.

#jouRapNal #book20 day 9

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#3goodThings #freecycle #social #privacy #threeGoodThings

#weeklyBeats #less #skyMap

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(sky map showong constellation norma sketch) today some were interested in freecycling za was good with mistaken green olives changed some audience settings looking 4ward 2 html.energy tomorrow - plan to escoot to waterloo park 4it how's fossy?

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This is something that stems from the bulletin board system period.

When people started to Flame each other they were just banging at the keyboard

BBS flame wars

What happens now {last 20 years} is the same; they can only be horrific towards each other when banging at the keyboard.

I've been told that people in industrialized countries can be very lonely. Hundreds of them in a building but they are still lonely

Often that loneliness is portrayed in a negative manner on public internet forums by people who often live a miserable life. Some of them in the US many, can also not pay for the psychiatric care they need.

The end result is a mess of a comment section

@rl_dane

#Social #Media #SocialMedia #troll #reaction #any #good #YouTube #no #TV

From "Social Media" to Social Movements...

Social #Movements are more than just Tech or Software:

#Mastodon you've done great work for social media but we need help to redevelop socialising itself:

- not only as media or storage.

- help move on from 1-way #interaction.

At some peak level of software we jump from a #tech tree of development to a #social tree of development:

To Develop:
How to socialise / #increment #trust.
How not be #afraid of others.

To achieve a Techno-Social balance!

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Title says: Social Movements are more than just Tech or Software. Picture of 2 trees to indicate the transition away from just a software development tree to social development tree.

#ThoughtProvoker 🤔

#Communication is what makes a social network #social.

Not blocks and shadow bans. They help make a social network safe.

#SX #SocialWeb #ReimagineSocial

@steve

You might be interested to check out my posts around the concept "Community has no boundary" I talked about 5 years ago, e.g. in this topic: https://socialhub.activitypub.rocks/t/standardizing-on-a-common-community-domain-as-ap-extension/1353

When I was still facilitator of #SocialHub I claimed that it wasn't a community in any real sense, with mostly #developers driving by on self-interested motives. It was just a discussion #forum, where a poor commons janitor (me) had to do the unthankful volunteer upkeep.

"Expectation mismatch" plays an important role when anyone mentions "community". A "community-driven #FOSS project" is partly the formal #governance that is in place, but mostly implicit cultural aspects. Knowing what you can expect is important, to not get disappointed.

A #fediverse instance to me isn't #community. I only use the Home timeline.

As we navigate fedi we 'weave' in and out of #communities seamlessly, without realizing it. A rich concept of inter-community #Social networking is possible, I think, but it should be carefully designed.

I just now found a self-hosted fediverse server that allows connection and administration via SSH. So far its setup instructions are the simplest I've seen for any ActivityPub server software.

https://stegodon.social/

#Fediverse #ActivityPub #SSH #stegadon #social #SelfHosted #WebMaster #WebLord

An experienced YouTuber said the following

• When you published something on the Internet any reaction is a good reaction
• If someone attempts to troll you shower them with love and affection
• Trolls hate Love and will run back under their Bridge
• If someone reacts extremely negative see rule number one and silently thank them

The fact that a person reacts to something written by someone thousands of nautical miles away is a feat which should be cherished

@rl_dane

#Social #Media #SocialMedia #troll #reaction #any #good #YouTube #no #TV

When We Create a Hostile Offline Environment for Teens, They Take Refuge Online

One of the things people talk about with age verification is that teens are sucked in and need to get off. That's not what's happening.

https://www.freezenet.ca/when-we-create-a-hostile-offline-environment-for-teens-they-take-refuge-online/

#Censorship #Editorial #News #ChatRoom #Internet #kids #social #SocialMedia #teens

Here are some very decent Mastodon instances:

Gamer Plus | Harry Larry is a workhorse!
-- https://gamerplus.org

Vivaldi
-- https://social.vivaldi.net/

InfoSec Exchange
-- https://infosec.exchange/

#Fediverse #Mastodon #Instances #Social

0. The first line of moderation should not be the instance admin. Each user account should be able to moderate mentions of their ID, or replies to their comments.

1. The top poster of a comment thread should be able to moderate all reply comments under that thread.

2. Instance admins should only delete posts that are clearly designed to offend, hurt, or viciously attack, bully, harass, gaslight, annoy etc. but should never delete a post simply on ideological grounds or heated but honest disagreement or debate. Telling the difference is very simple in almost all cases: tone and mindless repetition being the biggest giveaways of the respondent's intent. If it becomes an unwanted or unproductive argument the top poster should be able to quash replies.

3. Users should be able to click a button to block and entire thread regardless of who posts to it.

These things are not a major problem for me since I'm on a simple instance and I can add users to my personal blacklist via CLI. It would be nice to see this kind of stuff as standard, basic button functions in activitypub and fediverse since not everyone wants to run an instance and use CLI scripts to moderate.

#mastodon #fediverse #moderation #postDeletion #activitypub #social

Not in The Prophecies: Practical Attacks on Nostr

https://eprint.iacr.org/2025/1459

#NOSTR #cryptography #social

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#Usenet #NetworkNews #NNTP #retro #social